{"id":231,"date":"2026-07-20T11:09:16","date_gmt":"2026-07-20T09:09:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/alfonsols.com\/?p=231"},"modified":"2026-07-20T11:13:12","modified_gmt":"2026-07-20T09:13:12","slug":"calm-is-easier-when-the-body-is-well","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alfonsols.com\/en\/calm-is-easier-when-the-body-is-well\/","title":{"rendered":"Calm is easier when the body is well"},"content":{"rendered":"
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I've spent a lot of time reading about equanimity, patience, and staying rational under pressure. Most of it turned out to matter less than what I ate that day, how well I'd slept, and whether I'd moved my body.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n

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The pattern is embarrassingly simple once I stopped ignoring it. On the days I eat light \u2014 vegetables, protein, nothing that sits in my stomach like a brick \u2014 and get some kind of movement in, I am a calmer, more patient version of myself. Small annoyances stay small. I have room to think before I react. There's something close to joy sitting under the day, not as an event but as a baseline.<\/p>\n

On the days I wake up tired, overeat, eat badly, and don't move, that room disappears. The same small annoyances land harder. I'm shorter with people. My thinking gets narrower and more reactive, like I'm working with less processing power and worse judgment at the same time. Nothing about my circumstances changed between these two versions of me. Only my body did.<\/p>\n

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The philosophy I was reaching for was already downstream<\/strong><\/p>\n

I've read enough Stoicism to have opinions about it \u2014 the idea that what's in my control is my judgment, my response, the few seconds I take before acting, and that the work is training that faculty directly. I still think that's true. But I'd been treating it as the whole mechanism, as if calm and rational thinking were purely a discipline of attention, something I could get better at through sheer practice of noticing and choosing.<\/p>\n

What I'm noticing now is that a huge amount of that faculty is physical before it's philosophical. A body that's sluggish and inflamed from too much food and no movement doesn't give my judgment much to work with. I can try to observe my anger calmly, Stoic-style, but I'm doing that observation with a brain that's already running hot for reasons that have nothing to do with wisdom and everything to do with digestion and blood sugar. The mental work is real. It's just not first. The body gets a vote before the mind does, and most days it's the deciding one. The Stoics already knew this, which is presumably why they talked so much about moderation.<\/p>\n

That's a slightly deflating thing to admit after spending real time trying to think my way into a calmer temperament. Some of what I took for philosophical progress was just the week I happened to be eating well.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n

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The body gets a vote before the mind does, and most days it's the deciding one.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n

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This isn't a discipline I've mastered<\/strong><\/p>\n

I want to be careful here, because the easy next move is to turn this into a routine I recommend \u2014 eat like this, train like that, feel calm forever. That's not what's happening. I go through stretches of eating badly and sitting too much just like anyone else, and when I do, I feel the short fuse come back exactly as described, and I know exactly why, and I still don't always fix it that day. Knowing the mechanism doesn't make me immune to it. It just means I can no longer pretend the irritability is about the thing I'm irritated at.<\/p>\n

There's also a version of this that curdles into anxiety of its own \u2014 treating the body like a machine to be optimised, tracking every input so the output stays perfectly regulated: counting calories, measuring sleep quality down to the percentage. That's not calm, it's just a more exhausting kind of control. I'm not interested in that either. The point isn't to engineer a permanently even mood. It's to stop being surprised when my patience runs out on the same days my eating and movement fell apart, and to stop looking for the explanation somewhere more interesting than that.<\/p>\n

What I'm left with is less tidy than either the philosophy books or the fitness ones would like. The mind can be trained, and that training is worth doing. But it's built on top of something that has to be tended first, and no amount of reading about equanimity replaces the plain fact of what I did with my body that day.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-231","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-sin-categoria"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alfonsols.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/231","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alfonsols.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alfonsols.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alfonsols.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alfonsols.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=231"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/alfonsols.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/231\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":234,"href":"https:\/\/alfonsols.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/231\/revisions\/234"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alfonsols.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=231"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alfonsols.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=231"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alfonsols.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=231"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}